Does He Have to Ask You to Be His Valentine?

Every year around Valentine’s Day, there is an influx of Valentine’s proposes on social media. One partner asks the other partner, “Will you be my Valentine? But there’s always that group of men who don’t ask their girl to be his Valentine. Then the question arises…if we’re together, why do I have to ask you to be my Valentine? Let’s talk about it!

Most women LOVE Valentine’s Day and thought of someone asking “Will you be my Valentine?” just bring flutters to the heart.

The Significance Behind “Be My Valentine”

Asking someone to be your Valentine is a romantic gesture showing your willingness to go the extra mile. If your partner would like that, it’s great to show that you will do anything to make them smile and see them happy. Again, it depends on the person because not every person is alike.

Whether you are in the beginning stages or have spent many years together, a little romance is never too much. It’s more than just a gesture, it shows how important the person is in your life.

A proprosal is not always required!

As stated previously, it depends on the person. That means that if this is something you want or don’t necessarily care for, it MUST be communicated. Now, some men are more knowledgeable than others when it comes to romance and automatically know how they should treat a woman. Most guys would prefer if you communicated the things you want and do not want, that way its easier for them to make you happy. If it is something you want, then you should tell him that so you don’t unintentionally become disappointed.

Now, if you’re anything like me, a Valentine’s proposal is not required…but don’t get me wrong! If it happened it would be very much appreciated.

Inclusion, it all depends on your partner and proper communication is the key. It is not something you have to do or don’t do based on what social media or society tells you, but soley based on what your partner wants because at the end of the day, that is the only thing that matters.