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  • Different Types of Soul Ties: Identifying and Breaking Them

    Different Types of Soul Ties: Identifying and Breaking Them

    Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

    First things first, let’s identify…

    What is a soul tie?

    In simple words, most would people identify a soul tie as a magnet/unity/spiritual connection between two people. According to Mindbodygreen.com, A soul tie is a connection with someone deeply embedded into your soul. A third definition is an emotional/spiritual bond that can make it hard to separate from another being.

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    Although, the most popular soul tie that people are aware of is the physical soul tie that stems from sexual intercourse. What people don’t know is that there can be platonic ones as well. There are healthy soul ties, and then there are unhealthy soul ties. Ever wonder why you can’t step away from someone? When someone you know is toxic and you know you should end it, but can’t seem to do it? It’s most likely is a soul tie.

    Remember…when God and/or the Universe doesn’t want you with someone, your souls will never be at peace together.

    Different Types of soul ties & How they are formed

    You have what is defined as Godly soul ties and Ungodly soul ties…

    • Godly: A connection in the spiritual realm that brings beneficial consequences. Stemming from biological, sexual/physical touch (Ex: parent & child and/or husband & wife).
    • Ungodly: A soul tie that goes against God’s plan, usually brought on by demons (Ex: Sex outside of marriage and/or toxic situations).

    You don’t have to be religious to determine which of these are healthy versus unhealthy.

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    • Physical: As humans, we crave physical touch whether it be a sexual act or a simple hug, which can create and bond and also keep you bonded with a person.
    • Emotional: Sharing feelings, experiences, and going through ups and downs with someone can really strengthen a bond and also create a tie. This explains why it may be hard to cut ties with someone you share an emotional soul tie with.
    • Spiritual: Since we are spiritual beings, this soul tie usually forms when you have a spiritual or emotional relationship with someone, it transforms into something deeper/powerful creating that spiritual soul tie.
    • Social: This usually forms through settings of social interactions, usually with friends or coworkers.
    • Permanent soul ties: When two souls merge without the agreement of each other. Usually, they are aware of it and deal with this soul tie on a more conscious level.

    Key factor: You can have soul ties with multiple people who also aren’t your soulmate.

    Different types of soul ties: Healthy vs Unhealthy Soul ties

    Although I want badly to say “you’ll know” when most people ask the difference between a healthy soul tie vs an unhealthy one, I’m going to list the main points to help differentiate between one another below:

    You’ll know its an unHealthy soul tie when:

    • You want to leave, but can’t…
    • You’re beginning to lose yourself…
    • The energy is off…
    • You feel constant negative emotions…
    • The connection is draining…
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    You’ll know its a healthy soul tie when:

    • You feel connected on a deeper level
    • They feel familiar/comfortable
    • They complete you/you feel like yourself around them
    • You get positive benefits vs negative from being around them
    • You crave their presence/constantly want to be around them

    How can I Break a soul tie?

    Although we identify the different types of soul ties, we can acknowledge that losing or trying to get rid of a connection whether you’re trying to break a soul tie or you’re trying to heal, isn’t easy. The first step would be to acknowledge the soul tie, then take proper action. Here are a few ways to break those unwanted soul ties or the ones that are no longer serving you.

    • Meditate – release this person through the art of meditation
    • Spirit work – Talk to the universe or spirit guides about this person and let them know that you want to get rid of this connection.
    • Talk to the person’s soul – Tell the person that the connection is going to end, they might not hear it but their soul will.

    Of course, this stuff won’t work if you’re not willing to do the work. You can’t just wish the connection away and if you truly want to get rid of this soul tie, you must also back up anything that you ask the universe for.

    Attraction is flesh, connection is soul.

  • 11 Affordable Valentines Day Gifts They Will Love

    11 Affordable Valentines Day Gifts They Will Love

    Below are some of the top Amazon finds at such an affordable cost. Tap into your romantic side with well-thought-out gifts this year. A box of chocolates and a teddy bear is boring and nowadays seems like such a lazy gift. Don’t be mediocre and give them the gift that they truly deserve. These are all through Amazon, so if you’re last minute, you can obtain them quickly through Prime.

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    Rose Bear w/ lights, necklace, balloon & card

    Design based on the shape of a teddy bear using artificial flowers, the flower bear is made of rose petals and comes with cute and romantic attributes. Packed in a clear gift box comes with a necklace, balloon, and card that will bring a sense of sight that shines in front of you. This is a romantic gift that says I love you, and someone would be proud to sit on their dresser and look at it every day. To remind them of you.

    32 Piece Makeup Brush Set

    If they’re into makeup at all, they’ll absolutely LOVE this. These large brushes are very dense and soft, easy for evenly blending blush, loose powder, highlighting powder, and foundation. It covers all sizes and shapes of brushes to carve the face for a flawless complexion, which is ideal for contouring, blending, shading, and highlighting. A must-have for any makeup lover.

    Red Stone Love Necklace

    This ‘I Love You Red Stone Heart Necklace’ is the perfect gift for her! Suitable for Mom, Wife, or Girlfriend. It’s a great way to show your love and eternal feelings as gifts on just about any occasion, especially Valentine’s Day. Your loved one will truly enjoy it! This preserved rose is made of real fresh flower, which is made by processing nature flowers through a series of complex procedures. This eternal rose represents forever, love, a happy family, and solid friendship. It is a symbol of true love.

    3D Bar Name Pendant Necklace

    Simple Style Bar Pendant Necklace, unisex for both men and women. High-quality Stainless Steel material, Hypoallergenic and Allergy Free; therefore, causing no harm to the human body. It’s a perfect weight and comfortable to use, daily wearing necklace
    bar pendant. Not only is this stylish, but it is a memorable piece. It sets itself apart from the typical name necklace and is suitable for anyone who wears jewelry.

    Size 30*5mm with a 24-inch chain

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    Customizable iPhone Case

    This custom phone case works perfectly for anyone with an iPhone and it is the perfect gift for any occasion. Available for iPhone 11, 12, 13 Pro Max, X, XR, and Xs Max. This gift embodies timeless memories that go anywhere you go. Anything customizable shows that there is some type of effort put into it, which anybody will appreciate. Perfect for your favorite memory together.

    Govee Interior Lights for Car

    This is the perfect gift for car lovers or someone who likes to accessorize their car. You can choose from over 16 million available colors or customize light effects to your liking in DIY mode via the Govee Home app. With more creative freedom, you can easily make your car stand out in a unique style. Different than most Valentine’s day gifts and will add a spice of luxury to any car.

    Bamboo Charcuterie Cheese Board Set

    100% natural bamboo – This cheese board is the perfect size for any event and is super easy to clean after use for the next party. Impress your person with this natural bamboo cheese board. Ideal for a date night, a romantic picnic, or a wine tasting. This type of romantic setup is based more on quality time, and with quality time gifts aren’t always necessary.

    Customizable Copper Penny Keychain

    Personalized Lucky Copper Penny Key Chain with Date Initials and Heart Around Year. A unique gift that shows there was thought and effort put into it. The initials along with the year exonerate the significance of the relationship. While the copper penny resembles you always being thought of. Hence the saying “a penny for your thoughts”.

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    Custom Face Men’s Boxers

    Want to make a statement this Valentine’s day? These briefs would be perfect! Not only will this gift make you laugh, but it isn’t the everyday boxer briefs you get your favorite person.

    Polyester, Lightweight fabrication for a comfortable fit.
    Covered black nylon elastic waistband ensures consistent comfort throughout.
    Two-sided fleece finish.
    Machine washable, hand wash suggested.

    Enchanted Rose Flower

    The rose comes in a specially designed glass with a transparent face, and in the glass, the dome lasts forever. The glass dome is made of premium quality glass, more transparent and without impurities. The base is made of solid wood after high-temperature carbonization, a more durable, stable, and smooth surface without burr. Unlike your typical bouquet and which usually dies on you, this particular rose lasts for a lifetime.

    ‘What I Love About You’ Book

    Show how much you love your partner by giving them this wonderful and cute fill-in-the-blank love book. Give it already filled or undertake this fun activity together. Either way, this is something you can always look back on to reflect on all the good times you share. Even when going through a rough patch this is something to read through to always remind yourselves of why you all are a union in the first place.

    Reality check: Remember, before you buy them that gift, no matter how cheap it may be. Ask yourself if those red flags that are showing up now really bother you and if this is all worth it.

  • Love or Trouble: Recognizing the Biggest Red Flags in a Guy

    Love or Trouble: Recognizing the Biggest Red Flags in a Guy

    Is he the one, or is he in trouble? When it comes to relationships, it’s not always easy to tell. But there are red flags that can help you see through the rose-colored glasses and recognize potential trouble in a guy. This article will delve into the biggest red flags to look out for.

    From controlling behavior to lack of respect, these warning signs can save you from heartache and disappointment. Whether you’re just starting to date someone or you’ve been in a relationship for a while, it’s crucial to be aware of these red flags. We’ll explore behaviors that indicate a lack of commitment, trustworthiness, and compatibility.

    Red flag #1: Lack of communication or inconsistent communication

    Poor communication, or lack thereof, and difficulty expressing and communicating issues is a personal issue that can further lead to frustration and unnecessary misunderstandings. Relationships with a lack of proper communication is a relationship that will not last long if not worked on.

    Red flag #2: Controlling behavior

    Attempts to control your actions, choices, or who you interact with are signs of possessiveness. If they try to isolate you from loved ones, it may be a sign of controlling behavior. When controlling behavior is not addressed, it can often become abusive.

    Red flag #3: Disrespectful or dismissive behavior towards you or others

    Disrespectful behavior towards you or others, including belittling, name-calling, or dismissive attitudes.

    Red flag #4: Jealousy or insecurity that leads to unhealthy behavior

    Excessive jealousy or possessive behavior can be signs of insecurity or trust issues.

    Red flag #5: Dishonesty or a lack of trustworthiness

    Repeated lies or inconsistencies in their stories may indicate a lack of trustworthiness.

    Red flag #6: Anger management issues or a tendency towards aggression

    Frequent outbursts of anger, violence, or unresolved anger issues can be dangerous.

    Red flag #7: Lack of accountability or taking responsibility for their actions

    A guy who doesn’t take accountability likely doesn’t think what he does is wrong, which can lead to resentment.

    Red flag #8: Lack of Financial Responsibility or reckless spending

    Reckless spending, financial secrecy, or manipulation related to money can be problematic.

    By recognizing these signs early on, you can make informed decisions about your love life and potentially save yourself from getting involved with someone who isn’t right for you. Love can be beautiful, but entering it with open eyes is important. By understanding the red flags in a guy, you can confidently navigate the dating world and increase your chances of finding a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

    Remember to trust your instincts and prioritize your safety and well-being in any relationship. If you notice several of these red flags, it may be wise to seek support or consider ending the relationship if necessary.